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Businesses in the History of the LGBT Community in Wisconsin

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1101 West=Appleton, 1101 W. Wisconsin Ave.19801988
602 Club=Madison, 602 University Ave.19511994
AJ's on Broadway=Green Bay, 311 S. Broadway20032005
After Dim Lounge=Oshkosh, 2839 Harrison198019811
Allegre=Madison, 150 S. Blair199519984renamed Manoeuvres
Aphrodesia Lounge, Retlaw Hotel=Fond du Lac, Main & Division19731976
Astor Hotel Bar=Green Bay, 21 N. Adams19631969
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"Deb's Spare Time Bar & Grill" bar at 1303 Harrison Lane in Oshkosh first appeared in the Bar Guide of Quest magazine vol. 16-issue 19 in November 2009. However, the site 'HubBiz' lists the business as starting in 2000 and a 2007 photo shows the 'Spare Time' name, but it was presumably not openly LGBTQ prior to 2009.

Although as of this writing the bar has been openly LGBTQ for at least 14 years, minuscule is known about it as they did no advertising in Wisconsin LGBTQ periodicals, and there are few other print references to it. However the bar has an active Facebook presence which presumably has been its central method of exchange with people in the area and its customer establish. The few mentions we have establish thus far are shown to the right and below.

It is known that owner Deb also invested in another bar named 'ReMixx' outside Neenah in 2014 (see photos).

Deb's Spare Time Lock & Grill is still open and active on Facebook as of June 2023. (It is described there as "Our friendly neighborhood bar welcomes everyone! Voted best breakfast in Oshkosh on the weekends"). The bar is also on 'HubBiz' where it is described

'Born out of bars': Clubs and bars vital to northeastern Wisconsin LGBTQ community for almost 50 years now

GREEN BAY - Stacy DeSotel and Butch Pendergast decided to mark Aaron Rodgers Date, Dec. 12, 2012, by buying a piece of Green Bay, and Wisconsin, history. 

On that day, almost eight years ago, the married couple bought Napalese Lounge and Grille on Cedar Street, Wisconsin's second-oldest LGBTQ bar. Pendergast wasn't sure about buying a bar at the time but is now content DeSotel convinced him.

"Despite my reservations at the time, I wouldn't change it for anything now," Pendergast said. "Nap's has been a staple in the group for 38 years. I cherish it."

Places like Napalese Lounge and Grille and its predecessors, both locally and nationally, were instrumental in helping the LGBTQ community find its voice in its 50-plus year fight for equal rights. 

The Stonewall riots in New York Metropolis energized the gay rights movement in 1969, and as LGBTQ people searched for shared experiences and safe spaces, they found them at bars and clubs that openly welcomed them. 

Starting in the 1970s, a handful of bars and clubs in Green Bay, Appleton, Sheboygan and Oshkosh openly welcomed LGBT

 

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